At work, a person spends almost half of his time. To avoid such situations and understand if the head is in love or is it speculation, 10 signs will help.
10. The boss is flirting
Before drawing conclusions, look at his communication with other girls in the team. Maybe flirting is an integral part of his life, he flirts with everyone, starting with his deputy and ending with a cleaning lady Aunt Lyusya. Rate his behavior. If he does not only compliment you, relax. Your boss is just a woman lover. Today he has one favorite, and tomorrow another. Do you want to continue working in the company? Do not succumb to provocations.
He can flirt in response to your coquetry. Many girls are flattered by the attention of the leader, and they provoke him themselves. Someone with languid looks, and some with frank outfits. If the boss flirts only with you, and you do not associate this with your behavior, then you have one of the proofs of his love.
9. Arranges regular meetings
And after school hours and often in private. You have joint projects, the rest of the team are not involved. The boss systematically asks you to stay after work; meetings drag out late. He is trying to take your conversation out of the office space. In addition, during such meetings, he is distracted from work, trying to talk on extraneous topics. This kind of boss behavior should alert you. There is nothing wrong with delaying after work and completing a project. But be careful, perhaps these are not just working moments.
8. Calls and writes for no reason
Out-of-hours calls are a wake-up call. Usually, bosses do not remember their employees after work. They have a busy schedule, enough other things, He calls just like that, is interested in your affairs. There are two options: either he wants to load you with work, or he is not indifferent to you. Often he creates the appearance that calls relate to work issues. But then it gradually changes the subject, translates the conversation to personal questions. If the boss fills you with SMS or personal emails, then he wants to transfer relations to an unofficial level.
7. Appreciates your opinion
Does your manager consult with you on any occasion? Maybe you are just a valuable employee. If the questions relate to your work and to your competence, then everything is fine. Cases when the boss asks for advice on complex issues that you are not good at are quite strange. Even more alarming when he consults on personal matters. Recommendations for choosing a style in clothes or a new sofa are not your responsibility. Therefore, this attitude betrays your boss with his head. He appreciates your advice because he is in love.
6. Makes indulgences
Of course, if the boss appreciates and respects, he can meet any employee. But you are always late, asking for nothing, do not fulfill your duties, and everything gets away with you. In addition, you received a project that you can not do. When they failed him, they escaped with a slight reprimand. Such concessions say one thing - you are a favorite. With one smile you can provide yourself with a flexible schedule, additional bonuses. It’s better not to. The team will not be approved for sure. And you can ruin your business reputation. There will be problems that will pop up even when applying for a new job.
5. Gives gifts
He gives you flowers, explaining this with a good mood. The cabinets of your nightstand are bursting with chocolate and sweets. On holidays, you receive the most chic gifts from the company and from the head personally. And even a vacation ticket from the company, although there were no such incentives in it since the day it was founded. Be careful! Your boss might think that by accepting all these presents, you agree to something more serious than flirting. He will wait for reciprocity. Envy and gossip on the part of colleagues, especially if you work in a women's team, will not let you work calmly.
4. It became better to dress
This behavior betrays all men in love. He's buying fashionable clothes. He has a new haircut. And he looks very very good. Men pay little attention to appearance. For whom is he trying? You should look at it if your company does not have a dress code, but the boss comes to work in full dress. Of course, only if he had not paid so much attention to his appearance before. He not only dresses up, but also tries to make you notice it. Emphasizes your attention with questions of how he looks, unobtrusively leads you to compliments.
3. Sincerely worried
He cares, everything related to your life: your success in work; Is everything good with your health? Are you tired? how much did your flooded neighbors assess the damage; how your cat feels. Moreover, the boss is interested not just out of politeness, he is really interested. He will worry about your safety. Such outside participation may seem strange, annoying and annoying. This is just a sign of sympathy on his part. If the love of your boss does not interest you, do not tell him about your problems. Let everything be fine for him.
2. Hurries to help
He not only worries about you, but also wants to solve all your problems. Especially if you are single. He will provide you with services. Completely different. It will open the door of the car or to the room, help put on a coat. Will offer help where physical strength is needed. He wants to give you a ride home, or on business. Of course, any gallant and well-mannered man can behave this way. But it’s not at all difficult to distinguish simple gallantry from a constant desire to help. Remember that by accepting help, you give a person hope for reciprocity. Therefore, do not rush to exploit the boss in full.
1. Invites to meet after hours
An invitation to a cup of coffee after a working day may mean nothing. Perhaps he wants to discuss working moments without extra eyes and ears. But if you are not his deputy, but an ordinary manager or secretary, it is unlikely. Moreover, in combination with the previous signs, this is an alarm. So the boss is already tired of giving you signs and decided to act directly. Most likely you are waiting for an amazing date. The boss will captivate you in an informal setting. Only you decide whether to agree to a date in private. If you don’t feel anything for the boss, but want to agree out of politeness, don’t. Better refuse.
Now you know if your boss is in love with you. Take care or reject - choose only you. If you do not like him, you should not start a relationship with the goal of increasing or obtaining material wealth. Do not be afraid to refuse, the boss is an ordinary person. He will not take revenge on you all his life for what you did not reciprocate. An adequate leader will not dismiss and will not spoil his career. As a last resort you will find another job. If your boss is interesting to you as a man, go for it. Perhaps in the near future you will meet not only in the office, but also in the shared kitchen at home.